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Anonymous asked: what is a subtle way to find out if a guy has a thing for you?
if a guy likes you, they will treat you differently from all the other girls he knows (unless he’s your really close friend)
Anonymous asked: I've hung out with this guy a couple times and we were sort of texting, but he never held up his end of the conversation even when he texted me first. So after a while I got tired of waiting and I wrote him off as a lost cause and tried to move on. But then we ended up skyping all night on New Years Eve and I realized that I actually have a huge crush on him. He hasn't texted me since though and I'm not sure whether I should text him or see if he bothers to make an effort unlike before.
i suggest you text him and just say something like “hey, haven’t spoke to you since NYE, how are you?” if he still doesn’t bother to talk to you again after this conversation, you should just move on.
Anonymous asked: this guy..he flirts and talks to me all the time, and when we hang out as just us he's the sweetest guy and at the end he always kisses me goodbye, but everytime after we hang out he gets so short and ends up not talking to me. i want to ask him if he even likes me, but im afraid to screw things up, but i also think he'd play it off and never answer me. i dont know what to do. man up and ask him if he likes me? or move on?
I would ask him. He probably doesn’t even notice that he gets so short and ends up not talking to you. If he plays off and doesn’t answer you, just say something like “seriously just answer me” If he still plays around, just move on… there’s no point in staying.
Anonymous asked: My friend/crush/ex/future boyfriend (that's a long story) randomly became really friendly and flirty about halfway through October. He talked to me every day and all day. He called be beautiful, perfect, the nicest person he knows, he always wants to talk to me, and that he felt cheery around me. This lasted all through November, too. Then, like two weeks ago, he stopped. He stopped flirting, talking to me every day, all that. I'm so confused and I want to ask him about it, but I'm not sure...
just ask him why he suddenly changed, but ask him in a not-so-serious way, so he won’t feel weirded out.
Anonymous asked: So im going on a blind date tommorow and im worried about one thing. we've been texting so its not totally blind, but i still have never met him in person. when i first see him, how do i greet him. im worried it will be awkward the first time we see each other. would i be awkward to hug him. what should i do? also tips for the date?
when you first see him, just say something like “hey, we finally meet after all those texts!” (act like you’re not nervous and you’ve done this a billion times before) Don’t worry if it is awkward and doesn’t work out, it’s okay because you’ll never see each other again anyways. Well, it wouldn’t be awkward to hug him at the end of date, but not in the beginning. For the date, just act like he’s one of your not so close friends. Good luck!
Anonymous asked: I'm really insecure about my body type. No.i'm not fat, i'm skinny. Except i get teased everyday about being small and skinny and a "twig" or a "toothpick". even teachers sometimes tease me. and it really hurts to hear all the time. I have a fast metabolism so it's really hard for me to gain weight. i'm 5'5 and 95 lbs. I usually just pretend to not care when someone says something about me being skinny, but inside it really hurts and sometimes i just crack and cry for hours.i just needed to vent
You made a good decision of venting to me. It’s also good that you cry because you just have to get rid of all your bad feelings this way. Stay strong. :)
Anonymous asked: I've been flirting with this guy in one of my classes and i feel like he flirts back with me. But him and his girlfriend just broke up not too long ago, except his ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend already. But he told me that she still texts him saying how she like misses him and stuff..but idk how he feels about it. I don't know what to do. Should i still pursue the guy? i don't want to start to have feelings for him and then he goes back to his girlfriend :/
I say, don’t pursue this guy ‘cause sometimes guys seem like they’re flirting with you, but they’re actually not. I’ve been through the same thing with a similar guy. It seemed like he was flirting with me, but to find out, he did the same to every other girl.
wakeuptheworldiscalling asked: Its really hard for me to confront people these days. I dont wanna look week. Shes the kind of person who people just revolve around. everyone wants to be her friend and I hate it. And i am a little jealous but i also just think shes being a bitch by not caring about me anymore and I don't really think I am the one to go and be like "why dont you talk to me" wah wah wah. Ya know what im sayin?
if you’re the person that has a hard time confronting people, then just move on and forget about her. If she really did want to be your friend, she wouldn’t treat you like this.
Anonymous asked: I've been sleeping with this guy for 8 months. When we first met, he was saying he was ready for a girl friend & all that good stuff. But once I put out, it was different. Like, he didnt want anyone knowing my name or knowing what we do&he would ignore me in school, but invite me over afterwards. I really like him, but he said we were just friends with benefits. Just friends, nothing more. Should I move on& forget about him, keep tryin to get him to be with me, or just stay friends with benefits
I’d say to keep trying to get him to be with you because it would a a shame to just let those 8 months of basically being together go down the drain. Try to get him to be with you by first of all, asking him if you actually mean something to him. If he says no just move on because staying with him will prevent you from finding a better guy. If he says yes, then tell him to show it in front of not just you, but also everyone else and to stop considering you guys to be just friends with benefits.
