Anonymous asked: I've been sleeping with this guy for 8 months. When we first met, he was saying he was ready for a girl friend & all that good stuff. But once I put out, it was different. Like, he didnt want anyone knowing my name or knowing what we do&he would ignore me in school, but invite me over afterwards. I really like him, but he said we were just friends with benefits. Just friends, nothing more. Should I move on& forget about him, keep tryin to get him to be with me, or just stay friends with benefits
I’d say to keep trying to get him to be with you because it would a a shame to just let those 8 months of basically being together go down the drain. Try to get him to be with you by first of all, asking him if you actually mean something to him. If he says no just move on because staying with him will prevent you from finding a better guy. If he says yes, then tell him to show it in front of not just you, but also everyone else and to stop considering you guys to be just friends with benefits.
