Anonymous asked: Hey, I'm here for advice, well, obviously haha!
I'm going out with this boy and have been for almost a month but I'm beginning to have doubts.
First of all, we're of two different races, and my parents aren't happy about that - they sort of pretend we're not going out, like it's taboo or something. Which hurts me. A lot. I think in my family only my parents and sister know. And with him, I don't even know if his parents know.
Secondly, we've known each other for four months, one of which we've been together. I mean, we'd known OF each other for a quite a while but when it comes to properly talking and everything, that's been going on since about the middle of March.
I like him, I really do, I'm just not sure if this'll work. I feel like we're more like friends than boyfriend and girlfriend - I mean, usually there's one person in a relationship that instigates hugs and public affection and all that and that's neither of us, which kinda makes it a weird relationship. But then again, we've moved pretty fast in private - don't get me wrong, we haven't had sex, but we've done stuff that could've let up to sex if you know what I mean.
I'm just really stuck with what to do, I have no idea how to go about this. I mean, I've thought about this for days but all I'm coming up with is "end it". I just, I don't know, I've only had one relationship before this and that lasted not too long either. Part of me actually regrets ending it with the last guy, but nobody knows that - well, you do and whoever reads this does but it's not like you know who I am haha.
Okay, I'm sorry, I'm rambling now aren't I haha.
Thank you in advance ♥
well, one of the ways to deal with this is to confront him. you tell him everything you feel. you can tell from his reaction if you should end it or not. good relationships last because theres communication between the two people.
