Anonymous asked: Ugh okay here we go, So you see I met this guy like a year ago, we became very good friends and started (Not officially) dating eachother. Then this girl he knew from the internet flew to my country to meet him and stuff. I could see on a instant that she liked him. They were even holding hands when I was walking next to them, and when I looked at my ''BF'' he quickly let go of her hand. I was foolish and thought meh he'll pick me in the end anyways, he's probably just doing that cause she likes him.
So I went on vacation for christmas and was excited to see him again. I came back, she was there too. and I just walked to his computer to google something then I saw that his msn name changed to him <3 the girl.. and how stupid I was, I just acted like I saw nothing. And I later found out that he was like doing stuff with us at the same time. He called my place "work" to escape from his home and be secretive about it. And now he just acts like it all didnt happen, and that girl and me became good friends, but she doesnt know that he was doing stuff with us at the same time.
After I was heartbroken I started cutting myself aswell, just cause it makes me feel better.
Im sorry that this is so freaking long, hope you can give me some advice
Thanks in advance xx
Are they still together?? Even if it was a yes or no, you should tell the girl what he was doing since you guys are good friends now. Stop cutting yourself! Obviously you werent important enough for him to make you his only one. So i suggest you try as hard as you can to completely let go of him and find yourself a better guy who will make you his only one.
