Anonymous asked: there's this guy. we hooked up and he has texted me every day this summer. we agreed we are aloud to hook up with other people but i havent and he told me the other day he did. hes at camp right now but we are hanging out when he gets home. we are going to the same high school next year and im falling for him. he helps me with my problems, tries to make me happy and not depressed, he calls me his baby, and every night i fall asleep while texting him and every morning i wake up to a text from him. everything seems perfect but there is a problem. hes cocky. so cocky. he always asks if i find him attractive, if my friends think hes hot, if i want him, what makes him hot, if my friends talk about him. all the time. and whenever i ask a question he avoids answering. when i say do you want me? he doesnt answer and says we talked about this already baby. i dont even know what that means. i ask if hes attracted to me because he always asks the same and he says sexually. if he wont admit he cares about me and if he doesnt then why does he work so hard to keep me from being sad. why does he text me every day? why does he try to help me? or does he care and he is trying so hard to hide it?
from my perspective, it seems like hes only doing these nice things to you because he just wants your attention and for your to keep thinking he likes you. once he returns you should ask him how he really feels about you and if he does care about you. and dont let him say “we’ve already talked about this” to you.
